Someone asked me this morning about how I gained clarity about my life. After some discussion about “going toward the energy,” I remembered the note I have in my desk that says,
I learned it from Andrea J. Lee.
The basic idea is to figure out if something has energy for you, ask yourself if you want to do it.
Hell Yes! means what it sounds like – yep – there’s energy there. Go DO it.
Hell No! also has energy. It could mean that there is something you CANNOT let continue in your life. Go FIX it.
Maybe? is “meh.” It’s probably something that you either think you should do, or you have a story in your head from someone else who thinks you should do it.
Maybes are NOs in disguise.